Forgiveness

Forgiveness

In our culture strongly under the influence of the ego, forgiveness somehow rare. For for the ego to forgive means to lose, and the ego has a horror of it, to lose it means to die ...

Besides, we tend to take the people who forgive for the weak, and there is no greater courage than knowing to forgive. The man who knows how to forgive is invincible! Nothing can reach him, his happiness is therefore dependent on no factors external to him (events, persons, acts ...), he is master of his life.

For if we look more closely, a person who can not forgive is dependent on the harm done to him, and therefore on the person or event that is the cause. She is dependent on others or from external events and suffers.

Of course, there are things that are easy to forgive, and things that are much more difficult.

For more serious cases, there is no need to forgive the act in itself (it is necessary to be a wise man to attain this level of forgiveness although this is not impossible). What is done is done, the best being to no longer think about it, so to stop feeding the wound. On the other hand, it is good to learn to forgive the person. Obviously it is much easier said than done, it is a very very big work to accomplish on oneself, probably even the biggest. But it comes out totally FREEDOM !!!
Free because we are no longer dependent.

Our happiness belongs to us, it is in our hands and only our hands, to us to reach out and take it.

To illustrate all this, when there is a trauma, it lives in us, like a small ball of black energy that squats our aura forever. When you think about this trauma, you feed this ball. So she clings even more to us since we are so generous to feed her.
But this ball is negative, these are low vibrations ... So we feed bad energies in us, and believe me it does not help (we all know now that certain cancers and other diseases are caused by these bad vibrations). The more we think of the trauma the more it is in us. It's the infernal spiral ...
In this case forgiveness is liberating, once the work on forgiveness is done, the little ball is no longer filled with energy, it can no longer live, it dies and detaches itself ... and we breathe! Not only do we no longer think about trauma, but we also feel light.
Forgiving is a beautiful proof of greatness.

And inversely apologize for the harm done! Because it goes both ways.

We must not hesitate to be helped or accompanied in this important stage of our evolution, a necessary step for our progress. Ascension goes hand in hand with liberation.

There are thousands of techniques for forgiving, such as writing what one has to forgive on one page, excusing those acts out loud, then burning the sheet. Everyone will find the technique that best suits him.

I managed to forgive and you?